I continued to practice giving readings and watched films, documentaries and shows on the paranormal to learn and understand how to cope.
I stayed over at my friends house, like I had many times before, but this time was different. I slept in her daughters room, we slumbered in separate beds. I was woken up in the night listening to the young girl speaking to someone. I knew instantly, that she wasn't talking to a person, it was a spirit. I felt an energetic presence in the room, and I froze and listened intently. As I heard her words, I also heard responses from a man. She called him by name and he asked who the lady was in the other bed....ME!!!! They chatted for a few minutes then I felt his energy leave. I shared my experience with my friend and she confirmed that the gentleman her daughter was speaking to was her brother in law and that he had passed in a tragic accident a few years before. They adored this man and missed him very much.
I now understand, that it gave confirmation to his family that he was okay and they were comforted knowing that he looked out for their children's well being. What a gift!
I wasn't raised in a religious household but I started to pray to anyone who would listen, my grandma, angels, and God. I requested that the spirits visiting me leave me alone. It didn't stop. I asked to understand and find the people who I needed to meet. I didn't meet them. I felt isolated and misunderstood, for many years. Then, one evening I watched a new paranormal television show and I asked for help again and it arrived!!
Ursula has been a medium since she was a child and enjoys sharing her experiences!