How can words affect us so deeply?

I have an unlimited measure of curiosity when I meet people, here and in spirit. I'm fascinated by their stories, experience and ability to connect or not, depending on their filter.

I met a woman in spirit recently that was old fashioned yet, she had a strong, courageous and forward thinking attitude. She made me sit upright, as if she had placed a ruler in the back of my pants. She had an air of distinction. This woman shared with me that she was a primary school teacher in the 1950's, was married years ago and she demonstrated a wisdom I had not known. She had a cheeky sense of humor and was very intelligent. The messages that she doled out encompassed her endearment that she had and the friendship she shared with my client.

*Lisa (her name has been changed for privacy) gently brought her attention to the unraveling of the sitters marriage and how men, are inferior to women, but she knew how to encourage and placate them, without their knowledge. I laughed out loud and appreciated the spirit's approach to life. She wanted to assure the woman receiving the messages that she is loved and that she continues from the other side to encourage her personal growth and that she supports their friendship. It turns out, after the reading, that I was given more details about this incredible woman in spirit.

The spirit that I connected to had passed two weeks ago. She was at the ripe young age of 102 years! As she made me see and feel in the reading it was affirmed that her appreciation for her appearance stayed with her throughout her life, she wore distinguished attire, maintained her hairstyle and beauty regime up until the day she passed. My client shared with me that *Lisa had traveled the world, was a teacher in the 1950's and had been married once. They shared a friendship, a connection that wasn't defined by age or time. There were others that came through, her mother, who had crossed over young, in her 60's and her grandmother. All of them had varying stories and insight to impart.

I live a fascinating life. I have this amazing career where I gain insight into the other side and I am empowered by spirit's thoughts and inspiration.

This is your life. What you do with it is up to you! Spirit consistently point out how anger and unresolved pain destroy family and relationships. It’s up to us to become responsible with our feelings and how we share them. The words that you dispense in your lifetime hurtful or loving, will always be remembered, both create a legacy that we carry with us. Spirit are impacted by how they lived their lives and they do their best to share with us what we are missing. It's not the lakeside cottages, the fancy cars and the size of your bank account. You can't take any of that with you. You take with you your memories, some great moments, loss and unrequited hurt feelings or love. How will you change the lives of those around you with your words today?

Words are what we carry with us, always.

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